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kadymae
I hope you had a great day!
Can I vent for a second? I promise to make it brief.
1) If you *hate* your significant other,
Leave them.
2) If your SO freaks out every other month and screams at you about how the personality you present to the world isn't the REAL you and calls you a liar, a hypocrite, and the sorriest excuse for a human being you've ever met,
Leave them.
3) If your Ex-SO is manipulating the rules of the custody agreement and you can't stand for that
Contact your attorney and work to get the custody agreement changed.
4) If you fight about the SAME thing all the time and you've been to counseling and you've turned yourself inside out and all they've done is nothing?
Leave them.
5) If all of the above is true and the one thing that's keeping you in the cycle is money? Pick up an extra shift, cancel your cable, and your $150/month cell phone bill and LEAVE.
6) If all of the above is true and the one that's keeping you in the cycle is sex? Learn how to masturbate or join a dating service or find a fuck-buddy
7) If you secretly enjoy the drama-llama? Stay, cycle up and down with your SO, and shut the fuck up about it.
8) You made that bed and if you really wanted to get out of it, you WOULD
Yes, it's easy for someone who's never been married or had a kid or shared a pet to say all of these things. No, I really don't know how heart-wrenching your agony is and I REALLY don't understand my friend who can't bring herself to get a divorce because marriage is a covenant with god and if she divorces she'll go to hell, but I do know first hand all about emotionally and mentally abusive relationships. Yes, it's hard and it's scary to get out but if you want to LIVE instead of cowering in fear you have no other choice.
Thus ends relationship advice from someone who's never had one that lasted over 18 months.
kadymaeI hope you had a great day!
Can I vent for a second? I promise to make it brief.
1) If you *hate* your significant other,
Leave them.
2) If your SO freaks out every other month and screams at you about how the personality you present to the world isn't the REAL you and calls you a liar, a hypocrite, and the sorriest excuse for a human being you've ever met,
Leave them.
3) If your Ex-SO is manipulating the rules of the custody agreement and you can't stand for that
Contact your attorney and work to get the custody agreement changed.
4) If you fight about the SAME thing all the time and you've been to counseling and you've turned yourself inside out and all they've done is nothing?
Leave them.
5) If all of the above is true and the one thing that's keeping you in the cycle is money? Pick up an extra shift, cancel your cable, and your $150/month cell phone bill and LEAVE.
6) If all of the above is true and the one that's keeping you in the cycle is sex? Learn how to masturbate or join a dating service or find a fuck-buddy
7) If you secretly enjoy the drama-llama? Stay, cycle up and down with your SO, and shut the fuck up about it.
8) You made that bed and if you really wanted to get out of it, you WOULD
Yes, it's easy for someone who's never been married or had a kid or shared a pet to say all of these things. No, I really don't know how heart-wrenching your agony is and I REALLY don't understand my friend who can't bring herself to get a divorce because marriage is a covenant with god and if she divorces she'll go to hell, but I do know first hand all about emotionally and mentally abusive relationships. Yes, it's hard and it's scary to get out but if you want to LIVE instead of cowering in fear you have no other choice.
Thus ends relationship advice from someone who's never had one that lasted over 18 months.
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Date: 2011-06-02 05:29 pm (UTC)