Hmm...I always believed in the g-spot, because I seem to have "textbook" (now defunct) definition of a raised area located by curling fingers shallowly into the opening of the vagina and pressing up toward the navel. I've always been able to orgasm vaginally, and my vaginal orgasms are more intense than those achieved by clitoral stimulation only. I am Kinsey's wet dream.
However, having had sex with women and having had many frank discussions about sex with many women, I know that some women can only orgasm via direct clitoral stimulation, some women can only orgasm via masturbation and some women can have multiple orgasms, squirt and come from merely squeezing their thighs together. I've already looked at it as "everybody's different," much as Etta James and I presumably both have vocal chords, but I will NEVER have that voice.
I also think a lot of what features into orgasm is mental/emotional (for both men and women), since I have had hugely intense orgasms that had more to do with subjective stimuli (attitude, location, taboo elements) than with position or physical stimuli. And that's my Friday TMI!
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Date: 2012-01-20 05:58 pm (UTC)However, having had sex with women and having had many frank discussions about sex with many women, I know that some women can only orgasm via direct clitoral stimulation, some women can only orgasm via masturbation and some women can have multiple orgasms, squirt and come from merely squeezing their thighs together. I've already looked at it as "everybody's different," much as Etta James and I presumably both have vocal chords, but I will NEVER have that voice.
I also think a lot of what features into orgasm is mental/emotional (for both men and women), since I have had hugely intense orgasms that had more to do with subjective stimuli (attitude, location, taboo elements) than with position or physical stimuli. And that's my Friday TMI!