Yeah, you gotta take care of yourself, and if they just spread their toxic instead of changing it, that's sometimes the only way to go. Or you can say that you've already given them the advice, if they want help moving out you'll be there for them, but you can't hear anything more about the situation not changing for your Own mental health. Sometimes folks get defensive and cut you out then, but that's their own loss.
Yeah, I love Dan Savage - I've seen backlash against him, but I like his rules about being GGG (Good Giving Game) in bed while not doing anything that totally squicks you out (among other advice). :D
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Date: 2011-06-02 02:42 pm (UTC)Yeah, I love Dan Savage - I've seen backlash against him, but I like his rules about being GGG (Good Giving Game) in bed while not doing anything that totally squicks you out (among other advice). :D