I'm a 36DD and dear Lord do I hear you on the more variety than black and white! I've actually had good luck with eBay recently -- I bought a purple lace VS bra that fits great, but it's a pretty bra. Lilyette is another brand that works for me, they have the one t-shirt bra (and it's purple!) that I don't climb out of until the end of the day. The straps are also padded and super comfortable. I've never had luck finding a sports bra that actually supports me without bounce while I work out, how 'bout you?